Most of us blame, Most of us loose
today !!!!!!!!!!!!
Most of us live
in past and we are not even aware or conscious of our living in the past. We
say big words like live in present, forget about future, we can’t be happy unless
we free ourselves from the clutches of past, one who follows his past cannot
enjoy the beauty of present and on and on, but do we really adhere to these
words? Do we? One thing always airs my mind why can’t we move ahead and stop
repenting and blaming the situations, people, and everything around us? This
question is not just to people out there but to me as well.
I
find people saying, obviously including me, this happened because of this, I am
not the one to be blamed but it was because of my status I didn’t live up to, it
was because of them; it was because of this reason, that reason and a lot
without any comma, without any full stop. And like this way we keep thinking about
yesterday and forgetting about the present and hampering the beauty of upcoming
future. In fact thinking and assessing about yesterday and spending too much
time actually has become a part. And, pity is that most of us don’t even
realize this. This is because we are afraid of working on or we tend to hide
our shortcomings, weaknesses and mistakes. We don’t want to work hard to
improve or overcome it, we remain complacent and every time we try to transfer
our responsibility, our duty by blaming people and blaming everyone around our
vicinity, we keep on worrying about our problems rather than working on them. It’s
true we can’t change our past but instead of worrying, we can ensure that the
mistakes committed in the past are not repeated and we shall take the onus to
improve it, instead of expecting them from others. It has been rightly said “staying upset about something that
happened in past and ending up ruining both the present and future is not going
to serve any purpose”.
There
are certain habits that can’t be changed or can’t be taught, say a person’s
generosity, pleasing others, courage and propriety of
conduct that are the stepping stones of beautiful life in present, in future,
but they are actually inbred qualities and unluckily is not gifted to all, yet
there are some things that can be changed, that can be taught so as to protect
the beauty of present life and stop it from loosing and i.e. “Shifting from blaming to personal
responsibility”. No one is responsible for our situations; no one is
responsible for our past. We are the
creators of our actions, our thoughts; our feelings for today are entirely our
choice, nothing should be blamed no person, event or situation. So, it’s time
to realize and act upon, past is history-a good story to learn from and future
is the story that hopefully, we would write, a story for others to learn from.
Let’s
stop blaming, let’s unhide our weaknesses, let’s take personal responsibility,
let’s try overcoming our shortcomings, mistakes, let’s stop loosing today.
Let’s
make a beautiful present, Let’s make a beautiful tomorrow :-) :-)
